H@n W31
平和型(隨和豁達,樂天知命)
您通常是溫暖、友善、忍耐、隨和、不好競爭,以及愛說話。您偏好和平、有組織、可預期而舒服的生活。
您喜歡配合環境,因而很難知道自己的優先次序,變成跟隨別人所希望而去做事,有時候甚至模仿別人說話的腔調、用詞,以及身體語言。
優點:
非常主動,具有眾多興趣和嗜好。您喜歡與人為伍,可以為了別人而發揮最具生產力的工作成效。
缺點:
您會「自我遺忘」,失去了什麼是對自己真正重要的覺察力。您很容易分心,即使一個人時,亦有可能把高度優先的事情留到最後才做。看起來很像是拖延,但並不故意。
愛情:
您一旦擁有了關係,不會想到分離,而且會承諾去經營恆常不分離的關係。您既忠誠又慷慨,可以不帶妒忌或競爭心去支持並慶賀伴侶的成功,當伴侶的需要浮現時,更能給予回應。
您的憤怒最有可能在親密關係中顯現。因為當您迎合別人時,自己就消失了。
「我有好長一段時間不知道自己的感覺,總是一片空白。當她投射出她所認為我感覺到的事情時,我們便陷入爭吵。我痛恨這種情形,但是對於引發我找到自己想要什麼確實有幫助。」
安定方位:成就型
在安定的狀態下您會變得很專一,能在短時間內完成許多傑出的事。
壓力方位:忠誠型
當面對感情的壓力或情緒對抗時,您會變得充滿恐懼,意識到所潛在的威脅,不但變得退縮,甚至唯命是從、好鬥、彆扭而且更頑固。
建意:
問問自己的想法,而非顧慮別人的意見
注意您對改變的不適感,學習歡迎新事物。
注意您的頑固和被動式抗拒
最渴望:和洽相處 最恐懼:有紛爭,有衝突 最難達到的美德:果斷 (Right action) 最難克服的執念:懶惰 (Sloth)juz got dis test frm my fren's blog.. for those interested.. can go try.. hehesome of da point is quite true lo..http://www.parttimegroup.com/PartTimeLove/Assessories/NineType/_Paper1.aspx
H@n W31
We do not remember days; we remember moments.
today juz went n met wif some old frens from form 6 at a coffee shop near Bukit Tinggi... after 2 or 3 hours of chit chatting... i realised dat even though 2 years of same class wif them.. i dun actually noe them well..
i dunoe wat they normally talk bout..
wat slang they use..(hokkien..mandarin..cantonese...english..)
i dun even noe which gang they normally hang wif.. (swt.. am i so ignorant??)
addon: when i say them.. i mean some of da clssmate.. not all.. nid to made dis clear coz sked later kena bomb by some of my fren..
i think dat all dis is due to my own personality gua.. remembering 2 years ago.. i rarely talk to other ppl except da same gang frm my secondary school(la salle).. not any special reason.. juz bcoz i abit shy lo.. (now thinking b.. reli funny... haha)
den 2 years had passed by.. n we went to new places n met new frens.. in uni.. i get to improve my skill to conversate wif other ppl.. not bcoz i wanted to.. but bcoz i was force to..(no more la sallian to talk to ma..)
itz not a bad thing though.. humans muz adapt to da environment to live better..
well.. a gathering like dat is quite fun man.. it reli brings back all da good memories when we was in form 6.. all da nice things... fun things.. n even some crazy things..
if got chance mayb i'll post up some incident dat happened gua..
p/s: kin wai.. when u read dis dun angry lo.. i tot u noe bout dis gathering de.. anyway.. i heard dat u went penang... so itz not my fault ar... =P
sam.. i tot of telling ur luv story in form 6 wan.. can ma??? haha..
H@n W31
crap crap crap....
wat da heck is happening today???
1st i can follow my family to zoo negara due to some v stupid reason..
den when i was enjoying my time on reading novel on9.. den something has to happen.. da line works perfectly.. but i cant get in da webpage which i was juz surfing a minute ago.. >_<
ok.. datz fine oso to me.. i tot to hav a rest by joining GG client to hav a game of dota.. but dis time.. da stupid server hav to create prob to me n making my pc restart... crap..
hav i done anything bad today?? oh well.. i better go b to my room n take a nap la.. hope evything goes b to normal when i wake up later..